傲慢与偏见个人读后感范文第1篇
The family of gentleman in the countryside is Jane Austen’s favourite topic. But this little topic can reflect big problems. It concludes the stratum situation and economic relationships in Britain in her century. You can find these from the very beginning of this book.
The first sentence in this book is impressive. It reads: “It is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must be in need of a wife”. The undertone is very clear: the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion but possession.
people always think that Austen was an expert at telling love stories. In fact, the marriage in her book is not the result of love, but the result of economic needs. After reading this book, I know the truth is that a poor woman must be in need of a husband, a wealthy man.
I couldn’t forget how eager Mrs. Bennet wants to marry off her daughters. If you want to know why she is so crazy about these things, I must mention the situation in Britain at that time. Only the eldest son had the privilege of inheriting his father’s possessions. Younger sons and daughters who are used to luxurious lives have no choice but marry a man or woman in possession of a large fortune to continue their comfortable lives. Thus, we can see that getting married is a way to become wealthier, particularly for women without many possessions. Jane Austen told us that
money and possession determined everything, including marriage and love in her century.
In “pride and prejudice”, the sister of Mr. Bingley strongly opposed his plan of marrying Jane because the Bennets don’t have many possessions and their social positions are much lower than them. From this, we can see there are a lot of obstacles for a not very rich woman to marry a wealthy husband. The society, the relatives would not allow them to get married.
In modern society, although the marriages of economic needs have decreased rapidly, the concept of “money determines everything” is still rooted in some people’s mind. A lot of parents try hard to interfere their children’s marriages. Education background, possessions, jobs remains the main reason that may influence one’s marriage. Marry for money is still a big problem in our society. We can’t help thinking: can money determine everything?
Austen left this problem for us to think. The genius of Jane Austen lies in this perfect simplicity, the simplicity that reflects big problems. Although Austen was only 21 when she wrote “pride and prejudice”, her sharp observation of social lives makes the style of this book surprisingly mature and lively. The plots in her works are always very natural. The development of the plot is as inevitable as a problem in mathematics. I think the depth of pride and prejudice is the reason that makes this book prominent and classic. Today, her book still can be the guide telling us the economic relationships both at her time and in modern time.
傲慢与偏见英文读后感
The first sentence in this book is impressive. It reads: “It is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must be in need of a wife”. The undertone is very clear: the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion but possession. people always think that Austen was an expert at telling love stories. In fact, the marriage in her book is not the result of love, but the result of economic needs.
After reading this book, I know the truth is that a poor woman must be in need of a husband, a wealthy man. I couldn’t forget how eager Mrs. Bennet wants to marry off her daughters. If you want to know why she is so crazy about these things, I must mention the situation in Britain at that time. Only the eldest son had the privilege of inheriting his father’s possessions. Younger sons and daughters who are used to luxurious lives have no choice but marry a man or woman in possession of a large fortune to continue their comfortable lives. (读后感
) Thus, we can see that getting married is a way to become wealthier, particularly for women without many possessions. Jane Austen told us that money and possession determined everything, including marriage and love in her century. In “pride and prejudice”, the sister of Mr. Bingley strongly opposed his plan of marrying Jane because the Bennets don’t have many possessions and their social positions are much lower than them. From this, we can see there are a lot of obstacles for a not very rich woman to marry a wealthy husband.
傲慢与偏见个人读后感范文第2篇
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简·奥斯汀的代表作《傲慢与偏见》是一部以日常生活为题材，反映18世纪末到19世纪初处于保守和闭塞状态下的英国乡镇生活和人情世故。
第一次读这本著作是在上中学的时候(当然只是故事梗概而已)，在当是看来，以为剧情是很难让人理解的，人物之间的关联也把我绕的头疼。后来看过由《傲慢与偏见》这本著作而改编成的电影，便大致清晰地了解了剧情结构与人物联系。电影具体地讲述小乡绅班纳特家五个待嫁闺中千金各自寻找归宿的故事。
新来的邻居宾利是个有钱单身汉，他成了班纳特太太追猎的目标。在一次舞会上，宾利对班纳特家的大女儿简一见钟情，班纳特太太为之十分兴奋。参加舞会的除了宾利还有剧中男主角——一位仪表堂堂，十分富有，但非常骄傲。他认为在场的所有女士都不配做他的舞伴。当然其中也包括剧中的女主人公——班纳特家的二女儿一个美丽、自尊心强的伊丽莎白。但不久之后，达西却对伊丽莎白活泼可爱的举止产生好感。在另一次舞会上主动请她同舞，伊丽莎白同意和他跳支舞，达西由此而逐步对伊丽莎白改变了看法。而剧中的次要人物也相当重要，例如宾利妹妹卡罗琳，她一心想嫁给达西，而达西对她十分冷漠。当她发现喜欢的是伊丽莎白之后便大力阻挠。达西虽然欣赏伊丽莎白却无法忍受伊的父母及妹妹们粗俗、无礼举止，担心简并不是爱着宾利，便劝宾利放弃娶简，最终宾利不辞而别。班纳特没有儿子，根据当时法律，班家财产是只能由男性继承。因此，他的家产将由远亲柯林斯继承。柯林斯古板、平庸、趋炎附势，依靠权势当上牧师。他向伊丽莎白求婚遭拒后马上与她的闺蜜----夏洛特结婚，给伊带来不少的烦恼。
小镇上民团联队里有个英俊青年军官威克汉姆。伊丽莎白听说其人品格各方面都极好，对他产生了丝丝好感。由于威的挑唆，伊与达西之间的误会越来越大。一次柯林斯夫妇请伊去他家做客，伊丽莎白遇到达西的姨妈凯瑟琳夫人，夫人邀请伊去她的罗辛斯山庄做客，在那，伊与达西再次相见，达西终于向伊求婚，但态度依旧是那样傲慢，伊坚决拒绝。这也使剧情上升到高潮，达西第一次意识到傲慢带来的恶果。于是，他决定改正，并写了一封长信留给伊，信里他解释了许多事，伊丽莎白最终原谅了达西。一年后，伊与达西偶然相逢，达西态度变得谦和很多，并帮伊解决了许多难题，这使伊打心底爱慕达西。终于达西深情告白:"You are too generous to trifle with me."两人终成眷属。
在我看来，无论是简与宾利的爱情还是柯林斯与夏洛特的结合甚至是伊丽莎白与达西的眷属都离不开“门当户对”，反映出当时社会赤裸裸的金钱关系。剧中人物都具有自己独特的个性，尤其是分别代表傲慢的男主——达西和代表偏见的女主——伊丽莎白。
奥斯汀的小说尽管题材较狭窄，故事相当平淡，但她善长在日常平凡事物中塑造鲜明的人物形象。文章语言也是经过锤炼的奥斯汀在对话艺术上讲究幽默、讽刺。常以风趣诙谐的语言来烘托人物性格。
傲慢与偏见个人读后感范文第3篇
My understanding and half-finish of the book Pride and Prejudice, its movie helps me a great deal. Having a clear idea about each person¡¯s emotions¡¢feelings and traits, I fully understand it, which I find completely necessary to speak highly of as an exceeding affecting love story, though sadness(Elizabeth, with whose head the detestation towards Mr. Darcy who appears to be highly proud ¡¢superior and conceited at everyone¡¯s first sight, filled at their first meet in the ball) spreads as soon as the story begins, a happy end, turn out to be at length.
This well-known to every family story, which is about love between a beautiful young lady and a handsome young gentleman., written by Jane Austen.The former lives in countryside with four other sisters brought up in family without even a tutor, while the latter raised in strict ¡¢traditional rules, inculcated with polite breeding and earns ten thousand pounds per year.
At then circumstance, in which fierce well-matched marriage value was still deeply rooted in every member¡¯s mind. The possibility of their love leads them to marriage appears to be out of reach. Because: the disinclinations, which Elizabeth has nothing except ,towards Mr. Darcy after in the ball her ask to dance with him refused. No sooner places she the trust in Officer Wickham¡¯s malicious prejudice against him, besides increasing the detestation, she is even so a little bit fond of Wickham that she can¡¯t prevent herself from looking for him in the ball held in Netherfield where Mr. Darcy¡¯s friend- Mr.Bingley lives, and disappointment swelled after finding his absence. Till this, the impossibility of Elizabeth¡¯s marry Darcy seems to be certain. Sever months later, she happens to overhear it¡¯s Mr. Darcy separated Mr. Bingley from Jane, her eldest sister, the hatred increases sharply to the edge. However, one of her sisters Lydia elopes with Wickham, who secretly ask her father for a huge amount of charge. This event confirms Wickham¡¯s dark character which has been mentioned in Mr. Darcy¡¯s explanation letter given to Elizabeth. Ice seems to melt slowly; Elizabeth seems to begin to trust him a little. What another good news later to be is that she accidentally learns the it was Mr. Darcy again shoulder the whole cost of Lydia¡¯s wedding with Wickham. Lydia spills the beans when she lost herself in ecstasy. The moment on hearing this, she is greatly shocked, then highly touched, finding she has wronged??Mr. Darcy all the way, hearty saying with tears in eyes to her father when facing Mr.Darcy¡¯s proposal ¡°I do, I do like him. I love him. Indeed he has no improper pride. He is perfectly amiable¡± .The ice hitherto entirely melts which always stands before a hearty love. The end, everybody seems to know, they living in forever felicity, just as wished. Four kinds of person I consider there are in this book, according
to attitude towards love. Each archetype , which can be applied to even now, comes from and goes back to allude to the relevant social one.The first one is Mr. Collins as fine model, who took the advantage of his possession of Mr. Bennet¡¯s house to propose to Elizabeth, then refused, but ridiculously thinks her repeated refusal is usual with young ladies to reject the addresses of man whom they secretly meant to accept. Then, he hopelessly marries Charlottle, Elizabeth¡¯s friend. This kind is self-conceited¡¢proud¡¢unassuming and ignorant, similar to those who consider everyone would marry money, and treat love as trade, or just intent to find a life-long companion instead of a life-long lover, when they being at marry age. Another word: They follow their age, not feeling from the bottom of heart.
The second is Lydia as good example, similar to those who always take a shine to lady-killers at the first sight, and so blindly fall in love that leave aside family member¡¯s cares and advices, resulting in easily taken in for their light love (if it can be called love) which ruined their felicity in return.
The two above both are love players. Has anybody ever thought of one who combines both of them exists. The answer is Mrs. Bennet, who eager to introduce all her daughters to Mr. Bingley in the ball with the hope of one of them could be singled out; who screams out along with Lydia when seeing charming officers passing in line in the street; who coaxes and threats Elizabeth to accept Mr. Collins¡¯s offer of marriage. Similar to those kinds of parents who always try every thing to make , sometimes even force their children to marry the rich.The last kind is Elizabeth¡¢Jane¡¢Mr. Darcy¡¢Mr..Bingley as fine examples.??They take affection serious, as a matter of entire life. No matter poor¡¢fortune¡¢sick¡¢healthy, as long as love make each other close, they will always go whole hog to carry on the entire life together, screw courages to overcome whatever threats¡¢forces jump out. Because they have already realized what they are when finding whom they born to live with for the whole life. Nothing in the world could stop the faith. The book says so, so does the truth. I believe this kind of person will be forever happy, for following their real feelings and instinct, not money¡¢fortune or anything else.
傲慢与偏见个人读后感范文第4篇
前不久，学校免费发放了一本叫做《家风家训》的书，这本书，我现在已经读完了，其中给我留下最深印象的是《弟子规》。
我现在读了《弟子规》这本书，使我明白了许多道理。《弟子规》里面蕴藏着许多道理1，只要反复领悟，你就会收获颇多!
入则孝里面说到:父母呼，应勿欢，父母命，行勿懒。这句话是说父母长辈叫我们，我们应该立即去，不容刻缓。父母长辈命令我们，我们必须做到，不能想着懒过去，就这样算了。
还记得那次，妈妈对我说:“吃完饭，收碗，洗碗，还要扫地，准备洗衣服。”听着妈妈的说词，我心里顿时一阵火大起来:“知道了，知道了，烦不烦啊。”
此后，我并没有觉得自己做得不对，反而更加得意。自从学了《弟子规》后我才深刻的反省到自己看似平常却很严重的小事。是自己不该反驳。妈妈叫我做的事都是很平常的，而且都是我力所能及的小事，况且，父母每天那么辛苦。如果说:让我做这点小事，我都不愿意，那么我的素质简直太差了。
我认为我不仅没有做到:父母呼，应勿缓，父母命，行勿懒，我还没有做到的还有很多很多。
如:父母教，须静听，父母责，须顺承。
我还有一次因为害怕公鸡，但还是要煮饭，于是我不敢出去舀米，所以就从楼上去，结果很悲剧，虽然我舀到了米，但是我过去时把油坛子打破了，妈妈回来后，我当时很不高兴，还发了脾气。
当我学习了《弟子规》中的入则孝，我认为我太不应该了，简直是不孝顺的孩子，通过这样的事，我知道，自己做事以后都得小心点，不能马虎，家里的东西都是用钱买来的，弄坏了很可惜，所以以后要注意这样的事再发生。
以后，我一定要尊重父母，为父母分忧，做力所能及的家务，虽然我的学习成绩不是很好，但是，我要努力做一个优秀的学生，做一个人人夸奖懂事的好孩子。
但愿每个中小学生抓住根本，重在实践，当祖国和人民德才兼备的接班人!
篇二
暑假期间，反复读了《中国家风》一书，流连于字里行间，畅怀于一个个家风故事，感受于中华民族的精神脊梁，心里久久不能平静。俗话说得好，国有国法，家有家规。所谓的家规归根到底就是每个家庭的家风家训，现如今，***字的社会主义核心价值观人人已经耳熟能详，根据这个，我们结合自己家的情况，梳理制定了自己的家训。我们的家风家训是:孝敬长辈、诚信做人、俭以养德、行善为美、宽容待人、自强自立。
为了和大家一起分享我们的家风家训，我在这里简单跟大家交流一下:我们的家风家训第一条就是“孝敬长辈”，常言道:“百善孝为先”，一个人无论他多么有成就，都要以孝字当头，只有孝敬父母，他的事业以及未来都会更加出色;“诚信做人”就是告诉我们要做一个诚实守信的人，这样我们的周围才会有更多的朋友，也会让自己的工作与家庭受益无穷。“行善为美”是要以善来践行自己的行动，要日行一善，做到语善、视善、耳善、心善、行善，因为美是从善行开始的;“俭以养德”，要做勤俭的人，一个家庭如果不勤俭无论有再多的钱财，都会散失殆尽。古人云:“俭，德之共也;侈，恶之大也。”“圣人修身、齐家、治国，都离不开勤俭之道，诸葛亮把“静以修身”，“俭以养德”作为“修身”之道;朱子将“一粥一饭，当思来之不易;半丝半缕，恒念物力维艰”当作“齐家”的训言;毛泽东则以“厉行节约，勤俭建国”为“治国”的经验。小到一个家庭更应该以勤俭来治家;“德”是衡量一个人做人的标准，如果一个人只有出众的才华，而他的品格恶劣，那么他的才华会黯淡无光;一个人的才华是建立在品格高尚的基础上，只有品格高尚的人，他的才华才能熠熠生辉。“自强自立”就是要自己独立生活，有志气，不让父母操心。遇到困难挫折，想出一切有利的办法克服困难，解决问题。
每一个家庭都有自己的家风家训，家风家训是一种延续，更是一种传承。俗话说得好:“以小家治大家。”只有我们每个家庭自己做好了，国家才会更和谐，世界也会更美好。让我们每个家庭通过自己的家风家训来拥有更多的正能量，这也是实现“中国梦”的所在。
篇三
家风也可以代表一个国家的风气，国家就是人民的家，这家风就更为重要了。它要靠人民的努力，遵纪守法，互帮互助，一个国家的繁荣昌盛，不仅仅是物质上的丰富。更重要的是她的风气，一个国家，一个朝代的风气决定了它的衰与盛，只有社会风气好的国家，才能国盛民强，才真正算上一个强国。
孩子是家庭的希望，家庭是社会的细胞。为人父母有义务有责任把家庭料理好、把孩子教育好。尽管使孩子具有高尚品质的责任未必完全在父母身上，但为人父母在心甘情愿当“牛”做“马”的同时，树立良好的家风，用好家风培养好孩子，责无旁贷。如果因为家风不好而使自己的孩子不像爱得华而像“珠克”，不仅会让父母伤心失望，对社会也将贻害无穷。“以德立家、以学养家、以俭持家、以国为家。”教育孩子崇尚节俭，力戒奢侈。少与他人比钱财、比阔气、比享受。多与他人比修养、比学识、比勤俭。从我做起，从家做起，从现在做起，争当树立良好“家风”之典范。
《礼记.大学》云:“修身齐家治国平天下。”家是最小国，国是千万家，家庭建设是国家建设的基础。全员素质提高了，无数“最小国”的“家风”也好了，“国风”、“党风”、“社风”、“民风”自然就好。这样，社会才能安定团结，国家才会繁荣昌盛。
希望家家户户能够形成一个良好的家风，让家风帮助我们学会做人，在社会中形成一个良好的风气!
篇四
我们常言“养不教，父之过”，在史书典籍中也有“孟母三迁”的教育故事，这说明了家庭教育对于孩子的影响。这种影响，并不是父母长辈所拥有的财富或是人脉权势导致的，而是父母长辈潜移默化中的一种性格品质的培养，也就是家风。读《中国家风》这本书,就如同与一位长者在一块儿,静静地听他述说一个个关于家风的动人故事。
当我读到《读书亦如生活》、《读书唯高家风继》时，我读懂了“书香”亦是一种家风，让我不禁想到身边的家风实例。
小时候去姨奶奶家印象最深的就是经常看到姨爷爷戴着老花镜或是看书，或是写字，那时候觉得姨爷爷好厉害，二十年代的人还识字，像我的奶奶、姨奶奶也只认识“大”、“小”等几个简单的字。长大一点才知道姨爷爷家的三个孩子都是教师，顿时觉得姨爷爷更厉害了，能教育出三个教师一定有秘诀。再往后，姨爷爷孙子辈的七个兄弟姐妹全都考上了大学，要知道九十年代的偏远农村大学生还是很少的，那些表哥表姐自然成为了我们这些弟弟妹妹学习的榜样，在我看来姨爷爷的秘诀定是传给了姑姑大爷们。现在，表哥表姐们有的成为党政干部，有的在自己的行业成为翘楚，收入颇丰，姨爷爷的秘诀被发扬光大?
前些日子姨爷爷的十年祭上，困扰了我许久的谜团终于解开。原来秘诀就是姨爷爷家的家风--书香。据表哥表姐说，姨爷爷是村里的大队会计，喜欢读书、看报、写字，每年春节前还要写春联到集市卖，家里文化氛围浓厚，姑姑大爷们在他的耳濡目染下也喜欢读书。同样，表哥表姐在这样的家庭环境下长大，自然而然的得到了“书香”的传承。
一代一代子女在长辈长期的文化熏陶下，自然而然形成的文化积淀，我想，这就是家风，这就是家风的传承。不需要刻意，它是无形的优良传统，存在于中华民族的骨子里，星火相传。家风，虽短短两字，却饱含中华传统文化漫漫承袭中的力量。
举手投足间，经过一代代的传递，取其精华去其糟粕,就形成了一个家庭的传承，而一个人人格的起点恰恰是在家庭的传承中形成的。几千年来，正是凭借着这点滴传承，让中华民族屹立于世界民族之林长久不衰，生生不息。正如《杂说“中国家风”》里谈及的“作为若大社会的一个小小的细胞，家庭的风气、家庭的教养，小则是家传代继、香火延续之本，大则是国之兴废、民族盛衰之要。”家风的意义不仅关乎个人与家族，更是一个古老民族能否延续辉煌的关键。
篇五
中国是礼仪之邦，五千年的文化传承至今。
而“不成文”，也是我国家训的一大特点，成为日常行为规范的有机部分，取其精华去其糟粕，一些家风家训中的精华融入新的道德建设中，许多脍炙人口的家训，已经是家家之训，形成家家之风。家风的建设关键在家长。家长首先要成为家风建设中的有心人，才能有意识创建自己的好家风，将延续自己的好家风，使自己的家庭和子女受益。
家风作为一种无形的力量一直在潜移默化地影响着人们。每一个人都生活在原生家庭。原生家庭不重视家风家规的建设，那就会使这个家庭的成员乃至这个家庭走弯路。原生家庭重视家风家规就会使这个人乃至这个家庭茁壮成长。好的家风会有一些共同特点，如:良好的道德氛围、健康的思想氛围、积极的情感氛围、认真的学习氛围、节俭的生活氛围等等。正是这种氛围造就了一个个身心健康的人、有作为的人、乃至对社会有突出贡献的人。可以说，好家风打造了儿童成长的好摇篮。
傲慢与偏见个人读后感范文第5篇
正如影片的名字，“傲慢”，“偏见”正是两个主人公最开始所处的境地：达西的傲慢使伊莉莎白对他存在很大的偏见。达西有一种高高在上的傲气，这可能与他看透了人与人的虚伪有关，所以觉得真正值得他欣赏的人实在是太少太少。可是从影片中其他的一些人物来看，他的感觉又不尝不是正确的呢?影片中的好几个人物形象都有势利卑微的毛病，比如贝内特家的夫人攀附权贵，几个小姐妹粗俗放荡。也许正因为他善良而真诚，所以对于他所认识的人的品性有很高的要求。然而也正是因为他太过偏激且不会表达自己，他一开始是看不起伊莉莎白的，而他也屡屡遭到了伊莉莎白的怀疑和误解。
由此看来，不能只凭第一感觉而对自己不熟悉的人做出评价，很多人等你了解了之后，你会发现与自己一开始想的有很大不同。正如风度翩翩但行为恶劣的威克汉姆，无知而愚蠢的莉迪亚完全被他蒙蔽，就连伊莉莎白也对他产生过好感。
好在达西写了封充满怨气的信来诉说事件的真相，才解开了他们之间的误会。
还有一个令我印象深刻的人就是贝内特家的表亲柯斯林。他身为一个神职人员，竟然在传教的时候不小心说出了性爱这样的字眼，可见他的内心有多么邪恶，而他对婚姻的随便也让我感到震惊和恶心。他的婚姻并不是建立在爱情之上的，他只是想拥有一个妻子，最好还是漂亮一点的，并且自以为是的以为任何女人都渴望他这样的男人。这也是那个时代典型的小人特征，趋炎附势，而对比自己身份卑微的人又有一种满足感和自豪感，多么滑稽可笑啊!
而最终还是有人愿意跟他结婚，也正体现了那个时代的悲哀与无奈。夏洛特正是那些弱势女子的代表，因为生计而没有机会追求爱情，能有一个安稳的家已经很满足了。夏洛特身上有一种理性的美，她是那种聪明清醒果断善于把握时机的人。看得出不乏追求者却终身未婚的简奥斯汀对于夏洛特的态度是批判的,可谁又能说她的选择对于她来说比起守在家里老处女还要悲惨。而大家都已经麻木了，仿佛这就是一条公理：女性的地位太低，就没有选择的权利，只能听从命运的安排。
在这样一种家庭环境与社会环境中，伊莉莎白还能坚持主见，坚持要找一个自己爱的人，如此脱俗更让人心生敬佩。她敢于正面对待瞧不起她们家族的人，所以对于柯斯林的带
有傲慢的求婚，她不仅强烈地拒绝而且还把他大骂了一顿。后来，当她爱上达西以后，对于达西姨妈的阻拦与干涉，她表现出女性难得的刚毅。她主动争取着自己的幸福，不卑不亢，敢爱敢恨，个性鲜明，这样一个女主角，怎能不让人对她心生崇敬呢?
傲慢与偏见个人读后感范文第6篇
Reading after Pride and Prejudice
Recently I have been reading a novel called Pride and Prejudice, which was written by Jane Austen. Although I haven’t finished it yet, I still have something to write.
The writer, Jane Austen, was an English woman. She was born in Steventon, Hampshine, where her father was a rector. She was the second daughter and the seventh child in a family of eight. The first 25 years of her life Austen spent in Hampshire. Austin didn’t go to regular schools, but she read many literary works at her parents’guidance. She started writing about the age of 20, and published six novels. Pride and Prejudice (1813) and Emma (1816) are the best-known books of them. Virginia Woolf called her “the most perfect artist among women”. Most of her novels were all adapted into movies and successful in the world. For living in a small country town, contacting the medium and small landlords, pastor as well as their quiet and comfortable living environment, there were no significant social contradictions in her works. She described a truthful picture of her world, especially the marriage and love between gentlemen and ladies by her meticulous feminine observation. The style of her works is humorous and rich in comic conflicts, so many readers love them. This type of novels not only at that time attracted broad readers, today; it still gives the readers unique art enjoyment. The novel describes love process of heroine Elizabeth and hero Darcy, her elder sister Jane and Mr.Bingley, younger sister Jane and Mr.Bingley, younger sister Lydia and Mr.Wickham, her good friend Charlotte and Mr.Collins. The marriage between Darcy and Elizabeth revealed the characteristics which constituted a successful marriage. One of these characteristics was that the feeling couldn’t be brought on by appearances and must gradually develop between the two people as they got to know one another. The marriage between Jane Bennet and Bingley was also an example of successful marriage. They had the excellent understanding, super-excellent disposition of Jane and a general similarity of feeling and taste between her and her husband. Unlike Darcy and Elizabeth, there was a flaw in their relationship. The flaw was that both characters were too gullible and too good-hearted to ever act strongly against external forces that may attempt to separate them. Obviously, Lydia and Wickham’s marriage was an example of a bad marriage. Their marriage was based on appearances, good looks and youthful vivacity. Once these qualities could no longer be seen by each other, the once strong relationship would slowly fade away. Through their relationship, Jane Austen showed that hasty marriage based on superficial qualities quickly cooled and led to unhappiness. The marriage between Mr.Collins and Charlette was based on economics rather than on love or appearance. It was a common practice during Austen’s time for woman to marry a husband to save herself from spinsterhood or to gain financial security. However, Jane Austen viewed this as a type of prostitution and disapproved it. Elizabeth was a clever, beautiful and strong-minded woman, who looked down upon the hypocrisy in high-society circles. Facing the marriage, she was courage, visionary and good at thinking. Although, she had some wrong opinions on Darcy in the beginning, finally she knew about Darcy justly through thinking, hence gained the true love. Darcy was a handsome, rich gentleman, but proud and didn’t want to make contact with others, leading to dissatisfactions from neighbors. Even worse, Darcy left bad impressions on the people around him and Elizabeth also hated him. She had prejudice against Darcy gradually. When Darcy proposed to her, she refused him decisively. After that, Darcy began to reflect on the self-examination and treated people with more populist. As time went by, they came across again. Darcy was not only polite, but was popular among the neighbors. Finally, regardless of his aunt’s strong objection and concept of family, Darcy proposed to Elizabeth again. Elizabeth willingly consented. She began to appear her lively side to Darcy. The characters have their own personalities. Mrs.Bennet was a woman who was eager to marry off her daughters. Mr.Bingley was a friendly young man. Jane was simple, innocent and never spoke evil of others. Elizabeth was a clever girl who always had her own opinions. Mary liked reading classic books. Kitty didn’t have her own opinions but liked to follow her sister. Lydia was a girl who followed exotic things, handsome man and was somehow a little profligate. As far as I am concerned, love is the most beautiful and valuable thing and the basis of marriage. Although material is important, we shouldn’t give up seeking for the true love. By contrasting Elizabeth with Lydia, we know the true love is essential. Then, I think the behavior is the symbol of people. If Darcy was polite and warm-hearted in the beginning, maybe he would not have been misunderstood by Elizabeth. Therefore, never be arrogant. It is true that the first impression is important, but we should also recognize someone in long time and from all aspects. That requires we are strong-minded, reasoned and sensible. Be tolerant to anyone, and you will be more likely gain happiness. Last but not least, this novel has an effect on today’s Chinese society, which is full of bullionism and hedonism. Many youngers have the question, especially girls, “Rose and bread, which is more important”. Once in a famous dating show called If you are the one, a girl said “Would rather sit in the BMW car crying, don’t sit on the bike laughing”, which means she would live together with a rich man rather than a poor man. Most girls think that houses, cars and property are more important than appearances and characters. I don’t agree with it. As new century’s girls, who are expected to be independent, self-reliance, self-love, we could earn money through our own effects instead of putting the hope on others. Only in this way can we have the security sense and be more attractive to lovers. The lover is one of the most intimate persons and the family is a part of our lives, therefore, let’s seek for the true love and create a promising future.