傲慢与偏见英文赏析范文第1篇
Reading after Pride and Prejudice
Recently I have been reading a novel called Pride and Prejudice, which was written by Jane Austen. Although I haven’t finished it yet, I still have something to write.
The writer, Jane Austen, was an English woman. She was born in Steventon, Hampshine, where her father was a rector. She was the second daughter and the seventh child in a family of eight. The first 25 years of her life Austen spent in Hampshire. Austin didn’t go to regular schools, but she read many literary works at her parents’guidance. She started writing about the age of 20, and published six novels. Pride and Prejudice (1813) and Emma (1816) are the best-known books of them. Virginia Woolf called her “the most perfect artist among women”. Most of her novels were all adapted into movies and successful in the world. For living in a small country town, contacting the medium and small landlords, pastor as well as their quiet and comfortable living environment, there were no significant social contradictions in her works. She described a truthful picture of her world, especially the marriage and love between gentlemen and ladies by her meticulous feminine observation. The style of her works is humorous and rich in comic conflicts, so many readers love them. This type of novels not only at that time attracted broad readers, today; it still gives the readers unique art enjoyment. The novel describes love process of heroine Elizabeth and hero Darcy, her elder sister Jane and Mr.Bingley, younger sister Jane and Mr.Bingley, younger sister Lydia and Mr.Wickham, her good friend Charlotte and Mr.Collins. The marriage between Darcy and Elizabeth revealed the characteristics which constituted a successful marriage. One of these characteristics was that the feeling couldn’t be brought on by appearances and must gradually develop between the two people as they got to know one another. The marriage between Jane Bennet and Bingley was also an example of successful marriage. They had the excellent understanding, super-excellent disposition of Jane and a general similarity of feeling and taste between her and her husband. Unlike Darcy and Elizabeth, there was a flaw in their relationship. The flaw was that both characters were too gullible and too good-hearted to ever act strongly against external forces that may attempt to separate them. Obviously, Lydia and Wickham’s marriage was an example of a bad marriage. Their marriage was based on appearances, good looks and youthful vivacity. Once these qualities could no longer be seen by each other, the once strong relationship would slowly fade away. Through their relationship, Jane Austen showed that hasty marriage based on superficial qualities quickly cooled and led to unhappiness. The marriage between Mr.Collins and Charlette was based on economics rather than on love or appearance. It was a common practice during Austen’s time for woman to marry a husband to save herself from spinsterhood or to gain financial security. However, Jane Austen viewed this as a type of prostitution and disapproved it. Elizabeth was a clever, beautiful and strong-minded woman, who looked down upon the hypocrisy in high-society circles. Facing the marriage, she was courage, visionary and good at thinking. Although, she had some wrong opinions on Darcy in the beginning, finally she knew about Darcy justly through thinking, hence gained the true love. Darcy was a handsome, rich gentleman, but proud and didn’t want to make contact with others, leading to dissatisfactions from neighbors. Even worse, Darcy left bad impressions on the people around him and Elizabeth also hated him. She had prejudice against Darcy gradually. When Darcy proposed to her, she refused him decisively. After that, Darcy began to reflect on the self-examination and treated people with more populist. As time went by, they came across again. Darcy was not only polite, but was popular among the neighbors. Finally, regardless of his aunt’s strong objection and concept of family, Darcy proposed to Elizabeth again. Elizabeth willingly consented. She began to appear her lively side to Darcy. The characters have their own personalities. Mrs.Bennet was a woman who was eager to marry off her daughters. Mr.Bingley was a friendly young man. Jane was simple, innocent and never spoke evil of others. Elizabeth was a clever girl who always had her own opinions. Mary liked reading classic books. Kitty didn’t have her own opinions but liked to follow her sister. Lydia was a girl who followed exotic things, handsome man and was somehow a little profligate. As far as I am concerned, love is the most beautiful and valuable thing and the basis of marriage. Although material is important, we shouldn’t give up seeking for the true love. By contrasting Elizabeth with Lydia, we know the true love is essential. Then, I think the behavior is the symbol of people. If Darcy was polite and warm-hearted in the beginning, maybe he would not have been misunderstood by Elizabeth. Therefore, never be arrogant. It is true that the first impression is important, but we should also recognize someone in long time and from all aspects. That requires we are strong-minded, reasoned and sensible. Be tolerant to anyone, and you will be more likely gain happiness. Last but not least, this novel has an effect on today’s Chinese society, which is full of bullionism and hedonism. Many youngers have the question, especially girls, “Rose and bread, which is more important”. Once in a famous dating show called If you are the one, a girl said “Would rather sit in the BMW car crying, don’t sit on the bike laughing”, which means she would live together with a rich man rather than a poor man. Most girls think that houses, cars and property are more important than appearances and characters. I don’t agree with it. As new century’s girls, who are expected to be independent, self-reliance, self-love, we could earn money through our own effects instead of putting the hope on others. Only in this way can we have the security sense and be more attractive to lovers. The lover is one of the most intimate persons and the family is a part of our lives, therefore, let’s seek for the true love and create a promising future.
傲慢与偏见英文赏析范文第2篇
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《傲慢与偏见》影评
从18世纪末到19世纪初，庸俗无聊的“感伤小说”和“哥特小说”充斥英国文坛。此时，有一位女小说家破旧立新，一反常规地展现了当时尚未受到资本主义工业革命冲击的英国乡村中产阶级的日常生活和田园风光，她，就是伟大的简·奥斯汀。
简·奥斯汀生于英国的乡村小镇斯蒂文顿，父亲是当地教区牧师。奥斯汀没有上过正规学校，但受到了良好的家庭教育，她的教材就是父亲的文学藏书。奥斯汀一家热爱阅读流行小说，多半是庸俗的消遣品。她少女时期的习作就是对这类流行小说的滑稽模仿，这样就形成了她作品中嘲讽的基调。由于她居住在乡村小镇，接触到的是中小地主、牧师等人物以及他们恬静、舒适的生活环境，因此她的作品里没有重大的社会矛盾。她以女性特有的细致入微的观察力，真实地描绘了她周围世界的小天地，尤其是绅士淑女间的婚姻和爱情风波。虽然其作品反映的广度和深度有限，但对改变当时小说创作中的庸俗风气起了好的作用，在英国小说的发展史上有承上启下的意义，被誉为“可与莎士比亚平起平坐”的作家。
《傲慢与偏见》是奥斯汀表达爱情观的代表作。小乡绅班纳特家中有五个待嫁的千金，班纳特太太整天操心为女儿物色如意郎君。恰巧，此时新来的邻居格莱是个有钱的单身汉，他立即成了班纳特太太的目标。在一次舞会上，格莱先生对班纳特家的大女儿吉英一见钟情，班纳特太太为此欣喜若狂。参加舞会的还有格莱的好友达西。他仪表堂堂，非常富有，但他非常骄傲，认为在场的姑娘们都不配做他的舞伴，其中也包括伊丽莎白。伊丽莎白自尊心很强，决定不去理睬这个傲慢的家伙。然而不久，达西对她产生了好感，在另一次舞会上请她同舞，却遭到拒绝，令达西狼狈不堪。而达西也开始反感班纳特太太及其小女儿丽迪亚的粗俗。此后的一天，魏克翰告诉伊丽莎白，达西的父亲曾给他一大笔财产，却被达西吞没了。伊丽莎白听后，对达西更加反感了。此后，柯林斯夫妇请伊丽莎白去他们家做客，又见到了达西。达西无法抑制自己对伊丽莎白的爱慕之情，向她求婚，但态度还是那么傲慢。伊丽莎白坚决地拒绝了。这一打击使达西第一次认识到骄傲自负所带来的恶果，他痛苦地离开了她，临走前留下一封长信作了几点解释：他承认格莱的不辞而别是他促使的，原因是他不满班纳特太太的轻浮和粗鄙;魏克翰说的却全是谎言，事实是魏克翰自己把那笔遗产挥霍殆尽，还企图勾引达西的妹妹私奔。伊丽莎白读信后十分后悔，既对错怪达西感到内疚，又为母亲的行为感到羞愧。与此同时，她也逐渐改变了对达西的看法。
第二年夏天，伊丽莎白随舅父舅母来到达西的庄园，与他再次相遇。她发现达西变了，不仅对人彬彬有礼，在当地很受人们尊敬，而且对他妹妹非常爱护。她对他的偏见消除了。与此同时，伊丽莎白接到家信，说妹妹丽迪亚与身负赌债的魏克翰私奔了。这种家丑使伊丽莎白非常难堪，以为达西会更瞧不起自己。但事实出乎她的意料，达西得知消息以后，不仅替魏克翰还清赌债，还给了他一笔巨款，让他与丽迪亚完婚。自此以后，伊丽莎白往日对达西的种种偏见都化为了真诚的爱。 经过一番周折，达西知道伊丽莎白已经改变了对自己的看法，诚恳地再次向她求婚，最终，一对曾因傲慢和偏见产生误会的有情人终成眷属。
影片的开头和结尾都让我十分的印象深刻：电影开始，画面定格在典型的英国庄园，浓郁的色彩，轻易就将人带入那个时代。伊丽莎白手里拿着一本书从原野走到家中，再加上优美的音乐，给人一种清纯、脱俗的感觉。回到家中，姐妹们和班纳特太太听到有新邻居后表现出来的势力、贪婪与她形成了很大的反差。简单的开场对话就将这一切交代得很清楚，每个人的性格刻画得淋漓尽致。影片末尾，伊丽莎白独自一人走到一望无际的原野上，带着绚烂的夕阳，仿佛所有的事物都染上了一层镀金的薄莎，充满的朦胧的诗意。而此时达西先生的身影渐渐的出现在地平线上，并逐渐放大。他大跨着步伐往伊丽莎白走去，风吹起他看似沉重的外衣、轻柔的头发，甚至是心底的一汪清水。夕阳比往时更为柔和，仿佛是情人之间最为亲密而细腻的触摸，已然靠近俩人身上。他们是相似的人，所以会彼此吸引，所以会相爱。
爱情是人类永恒的主题，探索真正的爱情也是人类不懈的追求。爱情需要什么，奥斯汀已经在片中告诉了我们。在我看来，《傲慢与偏见》很好的反映了奥斯汀的婚姻观。她主张有爱情的婚姻，纯粹为了财产和地位而结婚是不道德的，而且这种婚姻只能看作是一种交易。但是，人也不能光靠爱情就结婚，必须要有一定的经济基础来支撑这场婚姻。门当户对，阶层相当是最好的，但如果不能够门当户对，两个人的婚姻中也至少应该有一方要有经济保障，而且这两个人也必须是情趣相投的才好。在这部电影的开篇就非常直接和生动的道出了财产在婚姻中的重要性。“有钱的单身汉总要娶位太太,这是一条举世公认的真理”，这句话揭示了无论什么样的婚姻，都至少要有一定的经济保障才能结婚。在当时的社会风俗中，父母的理想也是要将自己的女“嫁个有钱人，儿子最好也娶一位有一定财产的女子。因此，班奈特夫人会在得知她们家附近要搬来一位有钱的年轻绅士时那么兴奋，最后当伊丽莎白要嫁给年收入一万英镑的达西先生时，她也欣喜若狂,为女儿要嫁个好人家而激动不已。
奥斯汀的爱情观念运用到今日也是十分客观实际的。她启示我们，性格在爱情与婚姻中是不可忽略的一个重要元素，两个人若是能够实现性格的互补，有共同的兴趣爱好，这无疑是爱情与婚姻的催化剂，能够建立和谐。美满的婚姻关系。另一方面，婚姻也必须以爱情与物质为基础，没有物质基础的婚姻是难以保障的，没有爱情的婚姻同时也是没有任何意义的。我相信，这部电影带给我们的不只有爱情的温存，更有心灵的启迪。
傲慢与偏见英文赏析范文第3篇
The family of gentleman in the countryside is Jane Austen’s favourite topic. But this little topic can reflect big problems. It concludes the stratum situation and economic relationships in Britain in her century. You can find these from the very beginning of this book.
The first sentence in this book is impressive. It reads: “It is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must be in need of a wife”. The undertone is very clear: the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion but possession.
people always think that Austen was an expert at telling love stories. In fact, the marriage in her book is not the result of love, but the result of economic needs. After reading this book, I know the truth is that a poor woman must be in need of a husband, a wealthy man.
I couldn’t forget how eager Mrs. Bennet wants to marry off her daughters. If you want to know why she is so crazy about these things, I must mention the situation in Britain at that time. Only the eldest son had the privilege of inheriting his father’s possessions. Younger sons and daughters who are used to luxurious lives have no choice but marry a man or woman in possession of a large fortune to continue their comfortable lives. Thus, we can see that getting married is a way to become wealthier, particularly for women without many possessions. Jane Austen told us that
money and possession determined everything, including marriage and love in her century.
In “pride and prejudice”, the sister of Mr. Bingley strongly opposed his plan of marrying Jane because the Bennets don’t have many possessions and their social positions are much lower than them. From this, we can see there are a lot of obstacles for a not very rich woman to marry a wealthy husband. The society, the relatives would not allow them to get married.
In modern society, although the marriages of economic needs have decreased rapidly, the concept of “money determines everything” is still rooted in some people’s mind. A lot of parents try hard to interfere their children’s marriages. Education background, possessions, jobs remains the main reason that may influence one’s marriage. Marry for money is still a big problem in our society. We can’t help thinking: can money determine everything?
Austen left this problem for us to think. The genius of Jane Austen lies in this perfect simplicity, the simplicity that reflects big problems. Although Austen was only 21 when she wrote “pride and prejudice”, her sharp observation of social lives makes the style of this book surprisingly mature and lively. The plots in her works are always very natural. The development of the plot is as inevitable as a problem in mathematics. I think the depth of pride and prejudice is the reason that makes this book prominent and classic. Today, her book still can be the guide telling us the economic relationships both at her time and in modern time.
傲慢与偏见英文读后感
The first sentence in this book is impressive. It reads: “It is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must be in need of a wife”. The undertone is very clear: the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion but possession. people always think that Austen was an expert at telling love stories. In fact, the marriage in her book is not the result of love, but the result of economic needs.
After reading this book, I know the truth is that a poor woman must be in need of a husband, a wealthy man. I couldn’t forget how eager Mrs. Bennet wants to marry off her daughters. If you want to know why she is so crazy about these things, I must mention the situation in Britain at that time. Only the eldest son had the privilege of inheriting his father’s possessions. Younger sons and daughters who are used to luxurious lives have no choice but marry a man or woman in possession of a large fortune to continue their comfortable lives. (读后感
) Thus, we can see that getting married is a way to become wealthier, particularly for women without many possessions. Jane Austen told us that money and possession determined everything, including marriage and love in her century. In “pride and prejudice”, the sister of Mr. Bingley strongly opposed his plan of marrying Jane because the Bennets don’t have many possessions and their social positions are much lower than them. From this, we can see there are a lot of obstacles for a not very rich woman to marry a wealthy husband.
傲慢与偏见英文赏析范文第4篇
The family of gentleman in the countryside is Jane Austen’s favourite topic. But this little topic can reflect big problems. It concludes the stratum situation and economic relationships in Britain in her century. You can find these from the very beginning of this book.
The first sentence in this book is impressive. It reads: “It is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must be in need of a wife”. The undertone is very clear: the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion but possession.
people always think that Austen was an expert at telling love stories. In fact, the marriage in her book is not the result of love, but the result of economic needs. After reading this book, I know the truth is that a poor woman must be in need of a husband, a wealthy man.
I couldn’t forget how eager Mrs. Bennet wants to marry off her daughters. If you want to know why she is so crazy about these things, I must mention the situation in Britain at that time. Only the eldest son had the privilege of inheriting his father’s possessions. Younger sons and daughters who are used to luxurious lives have no choice but marry a man or woman in possession of a large fortune to continue their comfortable lives. Thus, we can see that getting married is a way to become wealthier, particularly for women without many possessions. Jane Austen told us that
money and possession determined everything, including marriage and love in her century.
In “pride and prejudice”, the sister of Mr. Bingley strongly opposed his plan of marrying Jane because the Bennets don’t have many possessions and their social positions are much lower than them. From this, we can see there are a lot of obstacles for a not very rich woman to marry a wealthy husband. The society, the relatives would not allow them to get married.
In modern society, although the marriages of economic needs have decreased rapidly, the concept of “money determines everything” is still rooted in some people’s mind. A lot of parents try hard to interfere their children’s marriages. Education background, possessions, jobs remains the main reason that may influence one’s marriage. Marry for money is still a big problem in our society. We can’t help thinking: can money determine everything?
Austen left this problem for us to think. The genius of Jane Austen lies in this perfect simplicity, the simplicity that reflects big problems. Although Austen was only 21 when she wrote “pride and prejudice”, her sharp observation of social lives makes the style of this book surprisingly mature and lively. The plots in her works are always very natural. The development of the plot is as inevitable as a problem in mathematics. I think the depth of pride and prejudice is the reason that makes this book prominent and classic. Today, her book still can be the guide telling us the economic relationships both at her time and in modern time.
傲慢与偏见英文读后感
The first sentence in this book is impressive. It reads: “It is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must be in need of a wife”. The undertone is very clear: the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion but possession. people always think that Austen was an expert at telling love stories. In fact, the marriage in her book is not the result of love, but the result of economic needs.
After reading this book, I know the truth is that a poor woman must be in need of a husband, a wealthy man. I couldn’t forget how eager Mrs. Bennet wants to marry off her daughters. If you want to know why she is so crazy about these things, I must mention the situation in Britain at that time. Only the eldest son had the privilege of inheriting his father’s possessions. Younger sons and daughters who are used to luxurious lives have no choice but marry a man or woman in possession of a large fortune to continue their comfortable lives. (读后感
) Thus, we can see that getting married is a way to become wealthier, particularly for women without many possessions. Jane Austen told us that money and possession determined everything, including marriage and love in her century. In “pride and prejudice”, the sister of Mr. Bingley strongly opposed his plan of marrying Jane because the Bennets don’t have many possessions and their social positions are much lower than them. From this, we can see there are a lot of obstacles for a not very rich woman to marry a wealthy husband.
傲慢与偏见英文赏析范文第5篇
As we all know, Pride and Prejudice is a love story as well as an illustration of the society in Britain in the 18th century. It is a representative work of Jane Auston. When I first read this book, the first sentence in this book is impressive. It reads: “It is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must be in need of a wife”.Even now, the famous sentence is always the first thing that come up to my mind when I talk about the fiction. I have learnt about “family” “love” “marriage” and “life” from Jane’s story.
In this story, all characters have their own personalities. Mrs. Bonnet is crazy about marrying off her daughters. Mr. Bingley is a very kind and friendly young man. But his friend Darcy, (the hero of the story), is a very proud man so that he is rejected by Elizabeth at the beginning. Even the five daughters in Bonnet family are very different. Jane is simple, innocent and never speaks evil of others. Elizabeth, (the heroine of the fiction), Bonnet’s second daughter, is an active and intelligent girl who always has her own opinion and has not been affected by the formal education. Mary likes reading classic books. And actually she is a pedant. Kitty doesn’t have her own opinion but likes to follow her sister, Lydia. Lydia is a girl who follows exotic things, handsome man, and is somehow a little profligate.
The first marriage is between Charlotte and Collins. Charlotte is the neighbor of Lizzy Bonnet. Their marriage is superficial without love. The second and part is the marriage of Lydia and Wickham. Wickham is originally a good guy but he gets into debt because of his bad behavior. In his view, love is not very important, it can be created after marriage. Finally, their marriage is doomed to be a tragedy as Wickham just wants to get money from Bonnet family. The third couple is the oldest daughter and Mr. Bingley. They are the ideal couple in people’s eyes and lead a happy life at last although there is a misunderstanding between them at the beginning. The last marriage is the main theme throughout the fiction. That is Elizabeth and Darcy’s marriage. First Elizabeth rejects Darcy because she doesn’t like him even despises him because she thinks Darcy is not a gentleman who has high social status. After a long run, Darcy has got rid of all his bad habits and finally, Elizabeth is moved by him. In the end, she agrees to marry him and they have happy family lives.
傲慢与偏见英文赏析范文第6篇
推荐作品：《简爱》
评析：
夏洛蒂·勃朗特出生于英国北部约克郡的豪渥斯，父亲是当地圣公会的一个穷牧师，母亲是家庭主妇。夏洛蒂·勃朗特排行第三，有两个姐姐、两个妹妹和一个弟弟。两个妹妹，即艾米莉·勃朗特和安妮·勃朗特，也是著名作家，因而在英国文学史上常有“勃朗特三姐妹”之称。 写作特色
这本小说告诉我们，人的最美好的生活是人的尊严加爱，《简·爱》所展现给我们的正是一种化繁为简，是一种返璞归真，是一种追求全心付出的感觉，是一种不计得失的简化的感情，它犹如一杯冰水，净化每一个读者的心灵，被认为是人生追求的二重奏。
内容简介
这是一部具有浓厚浪漫主义色彩的现实主义小说，小说主要描写了
简·爱与罗切斯特的爱情。主人公简·爱是一个心地纯洁、善于思考的女性，她生活在社会底层，受尽磨难。但她有倔强的性格和勇于追求平等幸福的精神。小说以浓郁抒情的笔法和深刻细腻的心理描写，引人入胜地展示了男女主人公曲折起伏的爱情经历，歌颂了摆脱一切旧习俗和偏见。扎根于相互理解、相互尊重的基础之上的深挚爱情，具有强烈的震撼心灵的艺术力量。
简·爱是个孤女，幼小的简寄养在舅父母家里。舅父里德先生在红房子中去世后，简过了10年受尽歧视和虐待的生活。以后，简被送进了洛伍德孤儿院。
孤儿院教规严厉，生活艰苦。由于恶劣的生活条件，她最好的朋友海伦在一次大的斑疹伤寒中去世了。由于谭波尔儿小姐的离开，简厌倦了孤儿院里的生活，登广告谋求家庭教师的职业。
桑菲尔德庄园的女管家聘用了她。
她发现她的主人是个性格忧郁、喜怒无常的人，对她的态度时好时坏。整幢房子沉郁空旷，有时还会听到一种令人毛骨悚然的奇怪笑声。
她爱上了罗切斯特。其实罗切斯特也已爱上简。当他向简求婚时，简答应了他。
当婚礼在教堂悄然进行时，突然有人出证：罗切斯特先生15年前已经结婚。他的妻子原来就是那个被关在三楼密室里的疯女人。法律阻碍了他们的爱情，使两人陷入深深的痛苦之中。在一个凄风苦雨之夜，简离开了罗切斯特。在寻找新的生活出路的途中，简风餐露宿，沿途乞讨，历尽磨难，最后在泽地房被牧师圣·约翰收留，并在当地一所小学校任教。
她回到桑菲尔德庄园，那座宅子已成废墟，疯女人放火后坠楼身亡，罗切斯特也受伤致残(失去一只胳膊，一只眼睛)。简找到他并大受震动，最终和他结了婚，得到了自己理想的幸福生活。
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这是一部以爱情为主题的小说。主人公简·爱是一个心地纯洁、善于思考的女性，她生活在社会底层，受尽磨难。她的生活遭遇令人同情，但她那倔强的性格和勇于追求平等幸福的精神更为人们所赞赏。
小说主要描写了简·爱与罗切斯特的爱情。简·爱的爱情观更加深化了她的个性。她认为爱情应该建立在精神平等的基础上，而不应取决于社会地位、财富和外貌，只有男女双方彼此真正相爱，才能得到真正的幸福。